YOU NEED TO SPICE UP YOUR RELATIONSHIP, NO BORING RELATIONSHIP IS WORTH IT.
We all want the same thing. Love, care, attention, acceptance and all that. The truth is that you have to give to recieve.
The world gives you what you put, what goes around will surely come around.
If you are looking forward to getting into a relationship that will work, here are a few proven tips.
LOOK FOR SOMEONE WITH SIMILAR VALUES
“For long-lasting love, the more similarity (e.g., age, education, values, personality, hobbies), the better. Partners should be especially sure that their values match before getting into marriage.
Although other differences can be accommodated and tolerated, a difference in values is particularly problematic if the goal is long-lasting love.
Don’t cheat on someone who you claim to love, what the need? Loyal women are sought for and are respected. It’s difficult to meet a woman who knows exactly what she wants these days.
Be a loyal man/woman. Your partner will really appreciate that.
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NEVER TAKE YOUR PARTNER FOR GRANTED
It is very important to realize that everyone potentially has a breaking point, and if their needs are not met or they don’t feel seen by the other, they will more than likely find it somewhere else.
Don’t get so used to your partner that you no longer do what you should do to make the relationship fun.
APPRECIATE YOUR PARTNER DAILY
Saying and doing small, simple expressions of gratitude every day yields big rewards. When people feel recognized as special and appreciated, they’re happier in that relationship and more motivated to make the relationship better and stronger.
Hug, kiss, hold hands, buy a small gift, send a card, or tell your partner, ‘You’re sexy, You’re the best partner, Thank you for being so wonderful. Just find a way to make your man/woman feel loved and appreciated.
MAKE SURE YOU’RE MEETING YOUR PARTNER’S NEEDS
“The number one thing I have learned about love is that it is a trade and a social exchange, not just a feeling. Loving relationships are a process by which we get our needs met and meet the needs of our partners too.
When that exchange is mutually satisfying, then good feelings continue to flow. When it is not, then things turn sour, and the relationship ends.
That is why it is important to pay attention to what you and your partner actually do for each other as expressions of love… not just how you feel about each other in the moment.”
DON’T FORGET TO KEEP THINGS HOT
Many times people become increasingly shy with the person they love the more as time goes by. Partners begin to take their love for granted and forget to keep themselves turned on and to continue to seduce their partner.
Keep your ‘sex esteem’ alive by keeping up certain practices on a regular basis. This allows you to remain vibrant, sexy, and engaged in your love life.”
SOLVES PROBLEM CALMLY, YOU ARE TRYING TO TRASH THE ISSUE NOT YOUR PARTNER
Researchers have found that four conflict messages are able to predict whether couples remain together or get divorced: contempt, criticism, stonewalling (or withdrawal), and defensiveness.
Instead of resorting to these negative tactics, fight fairly, discuss the issue and why you are hurt. If your partner truly loves you, they will apologize and then adjust.