Not that we don’t deserve the best or that we will never be able to fall in love again, it’s just that there is someone we wanted so badly but somethings happened at the wrong time.
Life is just the way it is, not everything will happen according to your plan and that’s because none of us can see tomorrow or that we were too young to recognize what we truly need.
All i want to say to you right now is f****cking snap out of it, excuse my French but do you want to spend the rest of your life thinking about mistakes when you have a bright future ahead of you.
I mean, the man or woman of your dreams is still out there and trust me, when they come along: only you will be hailing God “THE MASTER PLANNER”. See it might not make sense to you at this point and that’s because you are letting the pain of not getting what you feel you want blind you.
Darling, it’s time to take a deep breathe, cry if you want and move. You need to do this now so you don’t miss out on love. You gotta be emotionally available to be able to give someone else a chance.
Ain’t nothing wrong with winding off a little bit it will make you loosen up a bit. Go for karaoke, it’s time to spend some time with your support system.
Fill the heart with warmth and positivity so you can attract the kind of partner you want. Your attitude gotta change, if you are sad and depressed; it will show no matter how to try to hid it.
Somedays ago, a friend of mine whose opinion i respect looked at me and “Chioma you are back to yourself” i didn’t realize i was letting my challenges get to me that much but God made a way nd healed me and now the difference is clear.
I made conscious efforts to do only what i truly love and that includes writing to educate, learn and interact with people. A couple of people have reached out to me because they love my style of writing and more jobs are on the way.
Just do what you love and you will find happiness again.
Sending you love and light.